Saturday, November 26, 2016

He just might be your perfect guy



I watched a video on facebook. In the video, a guy is kneeling down and begging a lady while other guys around the scene are making fun of him for stooping so low for just a lady. He does not mind them and continues going after her to kneel down and beg while she is raining curses on him and even hitting him.
I don't know why he was begging because the video was inaudible so i can't say she should have given him what he wanted because i do not know what it was or the circumstances surrounding the situation. 
That brings me to my point, one thing about we ladies that we may not really know is that we unconsciously fall for proud guys, a guy that cannot kneel down before so many people to beg us. I mean yes, some part of us would like to be the girl whose guy is kneeling down and begging her but the kind of guys we are attracted to would not do that. Have you noticed that most times, the "perfect" ones are the heart breakers? That guy that has been begging you, has given you his "mumu" buttons, the one with an accent, the one that takes you out for lunch without asking anything in return, the one that thinks before he talks so as not to offend you, the one that is always apologising till you get irritated, the short guy, the ugly guy, the uneducated one most times that is the guy that would treat you like the queen you want to be treated as unfortunately, we are just attracted to the "Yoruba demons" and those are the ones with mood swings, the on and off ones, the ones that may dare to hit. I maybe partial, but i do believe its better for the man to do more of the loving while we love back. So take a second look at that guy, he may not be that bad. If he would love you everyday, take care of you and treat you right, maybe you should reconsider he just might be "your perfect guy".
Disclaimer: There is a thin line between this guy and an obsessed guy. Shine your eyes to know when its an obsession. 
Have you been in a relationship or married to a "Yoruba demon" (they don't actually have to be Yoruba) or do you know someone who has? Ever had a relationship with that guy that loved you too much? Drop the gist for me in the comment box lets interact.

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